AI as a Resource, Not an Authority
Why orientation, permission, and safety still belong to humans
AI can surface the terrain.
CoreSelf Positioning decides where—and whether—we travel.
The Shift We Need to Make
We’ve established that AI is a mirror, not a compass.
It reflects patterns, summarizes information, and accelerates learning — but it does not decide direction.
As organizations integrate AI more deeply into daily work, a quieter question emerges:
If AI is no longer just a tool, but a constant presence — what must still remain uniquely human?
The answer is not intelligence, creativity, or even ethics alone.
It is orientation, permission, and safety.
These are not technical functions.
They are human responsibilities.
Orientation Comes First — Always
Before AI is used well, people must orient themselves.
- Where am I right now?
- Where are we as a team or organization?
- Where do we want to be — and why?
Without orientation, AI outputs feel impressive but untethered.
Data arrives faster than meaning can keep up.
CoreSelf Mapping (CSM) restores internal orientation for individuals.
CoreSelf Positioning (CSP) extends that orientation across teams — so shared direction precedes shared action.
Orientation is what prevents AI from becoming an authority simply because it sounds confident.
Permission: The Missing Layer in Most AI Conversations
Even with orientation, not every question should be asked.
Not every insight should be surfaced.
Not every pattern should be acted upon.
Permission answers a different question:
Is this the right moment — and the right way — to explore this?
In human systems, permission is contextual and relational.
It determines pacing, depth, and readiness.
AI cannot sense permission.
It can only respond to what it is given.
This is why CSP matters: it creates a deliberate pause where individuals and teams decide what they are ready to explore together, rather than outsourcing that judgment to an algorithm.
Safety Is Not a Value — It’s a Precondition
Trained professionals — therapists, pilots, surgeons — learn something fundamental early on:
Establish safety before advancing action.
Safety is not a KPI.
It is the condition that allows insight to be integrated rather than defended against.
AI can analyze risk, simulate outcomes, and rank options — but it cannot feel when curiosity becomes overwhelm, or when insight becomes threat.
CSM and CSP protect safety by:
- keeping reflection self-directed,
- making participation voluntary,
- and allowing individuals and teams to regulate pace.
Without safety, speed becomes destabilizing — even when strategies are “right.”
A Practical Example: Using AI Without Giving It Authority
Scenario:
Two founders of a design firm sense something is off. Revenue is stable, but energy is uneven and decisions feel heavy. Instead of asking AI for answers, they pause.
Step 1: Orientation (Human → Internal)
Each founder completes a brief 4S reflection:
- Situation: “We’re busy, but not energized.”
- Strengths: “Strong client trust and creative depth.”
- Struggles: “Inconsistent margins and decision fatigue.”
- Strategies: “Tempted to scale, unsure it fits.”
They share these reflections using CSP, aligning on where they are and where they want to be.
Step 2: AI as Resource (Human → AI)
Only then do they engage their company AI — which has access to proposals, win/loss data, referrals, and project histories.
They ask neutral, non-leading questions:
- “What patterns appear across projects with sustained momentum?”
- “Where do margin, client satisfaction, and team energy overlap?”
AI surfaces patterns they hadn’t fully connected:
- certain client profiles consistently expand,
- a specific service line correlates with referrals,
- scope creep aligns with positioning — not execution quality.
Step 3: Return to Orientation (AI → Human)
They don’t act immediately.
Instead, they ask one another:
“What are we both observing that could move us closer to where we want to be?
Are there questions — if answered — that could help shift this situation in a positive direction?”
Relief follows. Focus returns. Energy steadies.
AI didn’t decide.
It informed.
They remained the navigators.
Why This Works: Capacity, Not Dependency
This approach aligns with what leadership researcher Liz Wiseman describes in Multipliers:
The most effective leaders don’t supply answers — they create conditions that unlock capability.
CSM and CSP do the same at both the individual and team level:
- They activate internal clarity.
- They distribute responsibility.
- They allow insight and contribution to emerge reciprocally.
Rather than asking leaders to provide recognition or direction, this model helps people practice orientation and contribution from within — and then extend that outward through shared language and check-ins.
This is how capacity scales without burnout.
AI Thrives When Humans Stay Oriented
Used prematurely, AI can:
- amplify misalignment,
- accelerate avoidance,
- or give false certainty.
Used after CSP, AI becomes:
- a pattern amplifier,
- a strategy sandbox,
- a learning partner.
But never an authority.
As Brené Brown reminds us in Strong Ground and the Tenacity of Paradox, growth requires the ability to hold tension without rushing to resolution.
Orientation makes that possible.
Final Reflection
The future is not humans versus AI.
It is humans who know when and how to use AI without surrendering authorship of their direction.
AI can surface the terrain.
CoreSelf Positioning decides where—and whether—we travel.
Curious to Learn More
- Preston, T., & Thomas, J. (2025). CoreSelf Positioning: Getting on the Same Page at Work and in Life. Amplify Publishing.
- Wiseman, L. (2017). Multipliers: How the Best Leaders Make Everyone Smarter. Harper Business.
- Frei, F., & Morriss, A. (2023). Move Fast & Fix Things: The Trusted Leader’s Guide to Solving Hard Problems. Harvard Business Press.
- Google re:Work. (2015). Understanding Team Effectiveness. People Operations Research.
- Dearlove, D., & Humphries, L. (2025). Connectedness: How the Best Leaders Create Authentic Human Connection in a Disconnected World. Wiley.
About the Authors
Jonathan Thomas, MSW
Whether at the potter's wheel, coaching medical professionals and teams, or in his private counseling practice, Jonathan Thomas has spent his life molding, shaping and creating something beautiful and new.
Tim Preston
As a successful serial-entrepreneur and angel investor, Tim Preston has spent the majority of his life learning, overcoming, and creating, from blank pieces of paper: self, spaces, teams, and businesses.
Together, Jonathan and Tim founded Simple. Not Easy., LLC, a company that developed CoreSelf Positioning™ tools to help companies and individuals to slow down and align energy levels, values, and actions in order to formulate their best next steps.
Learn more about Jonathan, Tim & CoreSelf Positioning.