Navigating a Difficult Conversation | CoreSelf Positioning in Real Life

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CoreSelf Positioning was created to help individuals realign themselves with their own values, acknowledge others needs, and move positively towards the resolution of daily challenges. CoreSelf Mapping, an active writing exercise, is part of the process, and can be critical to unlocking what keeps us “stuck” whether personal or professional.


Susan, a retired business owner, is no stranger to decision-making, but when emotions began to muddy the waters too much, she needed help.

Susan needed to have a difficult conversation with someone about a situation that had become emotionally complex, marked by family ties, unspoken expectations, and growing internal tensions. She had left people feeling stuck, anxious, or unsure of what to do next. Susan found herself looping through the same internal dialogue, replaying scenarios, and avoiding the conversation altogether out of fear or uncertainty. She needed a way to step back, make sense of all the pieces, and approach the situation with clarity, compassion, and purpose. That’s when she turned to CoreSelf Mapping.

Using CoreSelf Mapping to Navigate Difficult Conversations

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Difficult conversations are part of life, but that doesn’t make them any less overwhelming. The emotional weight of these moments can see all the different aspects of the problem, what you’ve tried, what matters most to you, and what resources are available.

Putting everything onto a page and looking at it all in one place can help stop the “spinning” and give you the confidence to finally move forward.

That didn’t mean avoiding the conversation-it meant having it in a way that was respectful, honest, and true to who Susan is. The map offers a balance of helping you stay aligned with your values while doing what needs to be done.

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If you’re facing a situation that feels tangled, emotional, or just overwhelming, CoreSelf Positioning offers a way forward with intention. You don’t have to have it all figured out, you just have to be willing to pause, reflect, and put it on paper. This isn’t about fixing your entire life overnight. It’s about taking one situation, one step, and finding your way through it, grounded in who you are.

Try a Guided CoreSelf Map, or read CoreSelf Positioning and see what opens up for you.

About the Authors

Jonathan Thomas, MSW
Whether at the potter's wheel, coaching medical professionals and teams, or in his private counseling practice, Jonathan Thomas has spent his life molding, shaping and creating something beautiful and new.

Tim Preston
As a successful serial-entrepreneur and angel investor, Tim Preston has spent the majority of his life learning, overcoming, and creating, from blank pieces of paper: self, spaces, teams, and businesses.

Together, Jonathan and Tim founded Simple. Not Easy., LLC, a company that developed CoreSelf Positioning™ tools to help companies and individuals to slow down and align energy levels, values, and actions in order to formulate their best next steps.

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